Tag: philosophy

  • Rescuing A Woman

    If you’re unfamiliar with my term Heartbreak World, it’s basically a descriptor for the social matrix we’re all caught in:

    -loyalty is praised but not actually practiced to any real extent

    -people’s brains are cooked by their private hedonism they engage in on their devices whereas in yesteryear they would have been forced to go on a walk or go to some social event or maybe just do drugs which at least was seen as wrong back then

    -the institutions have been wholly captured by the State and thus promote as much agony and misery as possible

    We’re all inhabitants of Heartbreak World.

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    The entirety of this social arrangement traces its roots to the condition of the parenting, which is pretty much shite but improving. The Boomers spanked at about an 88% rate (off the top of my head), Gen X spanks at 45%, and Millennials spank at about 20%.

    The younger generations still have a way to go on the verbal side of things. Doesn’t help that everyone is becoming illiterate.

    You wouldn’t know parenting is improving because spankers, who are hotheads, are the most full-throated about their bad habits and will gnaw off their own leg to justify hitting children in someone else’s eyes. This is simply a repetition of their own histories where they were crippled by their abusive parents.

    It’s ugly. Anyway, to the topic at hand.

    I have this phenomenal track record at this point, stretching back well over a decade, of getting men into marriages.

    The main ingredient necessary is a willingness on the part of the man to humble himself and learn what needs to be learned, by the logic of his own life, what will get him across the finish line.

    Inquire at stevefranssen@protonmail.com.

    Most men don’t have the stones.

    Philosophy is a mirror. If a man can’t face the damage he’s done in his life, he will inevitably personalize with you, who are holding up the mirror, and either storm off or slink away in bitter dejection. The more proud ones will latch on to some lesser figure who isn’t as good at holding up the mirror and will endlessly console themselves as if you were the perp. It’s childhood all over again for these guys.

    People who weren’t encouraged in childhood will interpret encouragement as domination in adulthood.

    I really should make more YouTube videos where I explain the finer details of all this. I’ve written some hearty-helping books, such as last year’s Family FormationI’m like the 21st century’s Carl Jung/Hermann Hesse/Aristotle/Mel Gibson/Bruce Springsteen.

    To rescue a woman, if she wants to be rescued, you have to be willing to burn the midnight oil in your self-knowledge work. You have to be willing to weather incredible storms of self-doubt. You have to be willing to reckon with the depths of your own depravity and your seemingly unending capacity for intellectual manipulation. You have to be willing to back to Beginner Mode and live with the incredible impatience this decision provokes.

    And if you can do this, it’s honestly just a quick hop, skip, and a jump to things working out for you.

    But people typically don’t want to be emotionally available like that. They want to keep extensive contact with their families of origin. They want to bury their heads in work. They went to stay hooked on their addictions. They want to have some PODCAST blaring in their ear so they can assuage all those teeny little voices of intellectual insecurity in themselves.

    It doesn’t take that long to get into fighting shape, if you’re willing to be humble.

    Humility is how you rescue a woman from Heartbreak World.

    The more hubris, the more skewed your life will become:

    If you already got a woman for yourself, 99% of the time because you’re decent looking and have a sex drive, you will damn her to having to live with your unresolved demons. You won’t do the “Big Reset” that is required for virtue to flourish in a romantic relationship. And the best you can hope for in the face of your stubbornness is a life of petty vanities — which of course you run the risk of your children making a complete bonfire of, particularly if they sniff out ole’ Franssen’s online work. Aren’t I the meanest man on the Internet? I wrote as much in my 2019 sleep-deprived book of allegories Coom, Consume, Comply. People didn’t know what to make of that but a few souls did listen. And of course, I say “mean” tongue-in-cheek cause it’s the opposite that is true: I’m the sweetiest. I’ve been the sweetiest peetiest person alive on this planet since Freddie Mercury died of AIDS in 1991.

    Rest in peace, sweet prince.

    Sometimes it’s like I’m roller-skating, chewing bubble gum, and making the finest philosophy this world has yet seen. Just have to get a wee bit of shut eye.


    Did you have fun on this jaunt?

    You thought I was going to give you a simple formula like:

    A) Bonk woman over the head

    B) Drag her back to your cave

    C) Quietly watch over her to ensure she does chores

    D) Put baby in her

    That’s what a lot of guys like to hear these days. Use penile implants! Obsess over your appearance! Pay $995 for the Man Camp! Pay hundreds and hundreds for an hour of the guru’s time!

    Is that what you want me to be, you brigands?

    You abuse me!

    Toodle-loo.


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  • How To Disagree With Someone

    You’re online, you bump into some portion of what someone wrote and you don’t like it.

    What you do from here is today’s focus.


    The first question to ask yourself is, “Am I reacting?”

    If the answer is yes, why give up your personal power – your time – in some kneejerk response to someone? What do you have to prove and to whom? And if you have to prove something to someone, why are you in this arrangement with them? Does it give them power over you, given how you will rush to respond to something you don’t like – on their behalf?

    Why are you living for someone else’s approval? Why do you need what they have? And if you are convinced you need what they have, is there a way you can get that without being in this power dynamic with them? If they make it impossible, why are you mentally triangulated with someone who ultimately stands in the way of what you want?

    This one of the many reasons why valuing personal freedom, and perhaps even taking a bit of time to learn about it, can get you out of sticky situations before they even form.

    Philosophy is about prevention.

    Everyone is running full steam ahead.

    If you can preclude the need for someone else’s approval, which is usually born out of not being guided toward independent opinion-making by your father, you won’t become somebody else’s online attack dog.

    Then you can have real thoughts.

    And someone is going to have an opinion you disagree with.

    When you are working on behalf of your own sovereign self, you will tend to find that disagreement goes better already because what you say in objection isn’t jingoistic and therefore easily anticipated by someone who already thinks for themselves.

    If you’re disagreeing with people who don’t think for themselves, you have to ask yourself, “Is this personal for me?”

    Some people feel a need to defend their own reputation against Reply Guys but people who think for themselves don’t go reading the reply section for points-scored-against.

    This is why I “let them talk”.

    In fact, if I have a tweet that goes viral, I just mute it because 98% of people I’ve ever met don’t even exist philosophically. They are not ontological beings. They are programming. People can be a kick, though.

    This one went KINDA viral. Always getting kneecapped on X, the military app.

    If someone is actually real with me, they tend to be willing to go to my Telegram public chat – which is a really pleasant place, curated by yours truly. Or they write me an email, usually asking for a deeper conversation which I am happy to facilitate. Sometimes people DM me on X.


    I don’t disagree with someone unless I want to be helpful to them.

    If I disagree with someone and I don’t want to be helpful to them, I keep it to myself or I try to distill it into a universal so I can speak on errors that people make commonly. This way, the principle is extracted and others broadly can benefit.

    If I want to be helpful to someone and I disagree with them, I reach out directly. But most people aren’t interested in being helped. I used to be surprised by this. Years and years of me offering a different point of view in a non-threatening manner and getting ignored. This is literally everyone I have ever interacted with in the “influencer space”. A couple of people actually accepted my help and entertained my different opinion, both of them retired from public and even private life many years ago. I miss them! A third one reached out to me and almost took my advice but didn’t. This would have saved the world a lot of pain. This is a person who is in the Oval Office every week. But that is a story for another time.

    This experience in the last two paragraphs has largely shaped my view of the world. I try to base all knowledge and theories on empiricism. And I am quick to look at myself for any bias. This is what I have found.

    This world is an extremely cruel place. The casual sociopathy is completely off the charts. The world and most people in it are Child Abuse Coded. It’s hard to unsee once you get to a certain level of sensitivity. This is part of what makes me so valuable and enduring as private counsel. I also just have tons of wisdom from having lived idealistically and philosophically for…20 years now. I try to be good in my private life, always make amends, and have valued my innocence since I was about 14 when I figured out that media was trying to steal it from me and my cohort, deliberately. Imagine being me at my 8th grade dance, seeing everyone go hedonist baboon mode to the latest hits while I had a head full of Gordon Lightfoot. Still, I found my own way of having fun and many people would follow me into it. They always have. I am a leader!

    Given the cruel world, at some level, the going gets tough and the tough gotta get going. Always helps to have a capitalistic mindset.

    But taking a moment once in a while to see if someone else will stop that full-steam-ahead train is an interesting and worthwhile experiment.

    Humanity still has the brightest potential!


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  • Arguments Over Opinions

    The art of the argument, always and forever.

    This is one of those where I have to start out with definitions. We’ll go with the most commonly accepted definitions and then I will refine.

    • Opinion – a view or judgement formed about something, not necessarily based on fact or knowledge.
    • Argument – a reason or set of reasons given in support of an idea, action or theory.

    There’s the old English idiom on opinions, “Opinions are like assholes, everyone has one.”

    Opinions can be viewed as the garbage that NPC’s spit out. They’re reactions based on one’s personal programming. The more a person is programmed, ergo the less self-knowledge they have, the more they tend to spew out opinions.

    It could accurately be said that White liberal women are a collection of opinions based on State and corporate programming. There is a full scale blitz on White women, through the State and Facebook/Instagram, to refashion their programming so that they will open doors to invaders and ultimately wreck their own tribe so that they no longer pose a threat to a certain outgroup. We must all live as a rabble with White men torn asunder.

    Opinions are generally effortless to elicit from NPC’s. Most people have never been validated by their parents, that is to say, had their opinion-forming process checked over for integrity and soundness. Most people are hard-up to get some kind of validation from someone with more status than them. This goes deep into childhood and remains the case for most people as they age, only they care less and less about anything because they burn out from private hedonism and turn into nihilists.

    When you encounter someone that has been “elevated” by someone much higher in status than them, you know they are an initiate in the cruelty of the elite. Opinion-forming is the work of the elite.

    You can’t get arguments out of people because most people have never been trained in logic, rhetoric, argumentation, etc.

    If a person hasn’t been trained in these things, there’s an exceedingly high chance they will not be able to display the skill set. The only people who pick up The Argument through their form of employment are entrepreneurs, people in non-employee roles. This is because entrepreneurs live or die by their wits. They have little to no institutional support to lean back on. Some people who are intelligent employees will ape entrepreneurs but are ultimately not invested in their own arguments and tend to defer to entrepreneurs when the going gets rough.


    Opinions (“this is bad” or “this is good”) are difficult to elicit from people with self-knowledge. This is for a number of reasons. One that springs to mind is that mobs tend to form around opinions. Pitchforks, torches, and all that. Mobs will attack or disregard based on a person’s opinions, which can even default to whether a random on the street is conservative-presenting or not.

    Another reason people with self-knowledge tend not to give opinions readily is because it prioritizes opinions, which can change with new evidence, and it deprioritizes The Argument. Making an argument is a complex art and if you can do it well, you appreciate just how much deferral of opinion went into the building of the methodology for you.

    Another thing with opinions is that if you’re “highly opinionated”, you tend to incept yourself further and further into an existence that is dependent upon your ability to read the tea leaves and surf power dynamics. This is why businessmen flock to major cities. This is why businessmen turn to politics when they can no longer tolerate making value appeals. They turn to securing loot for a constituency while hiding CIA/Moss*d assassination threats from that constituency.

    Opinions are highly dependent on the experience of people receiving them. This is because opinions aren’t reasoned to. They are a form of manipulation borne from programming. This is why it is supremely easy to corrupt politicians and non-productive enterprise businessmen – i.e. businessmen that aren’t involved in anything that is actually made. They didn’t have integrity to begin with, just the “profit motive” that the Communists are kind of in the ballpark mildly correct about (even though they’re much bigger pieces of shit than a somewhat spineless White dude businessman could ever be).

    Now and then you will encounter a businessman who thinks he’s a big swinging dick with philosophy but if you scratch the surface, you’ll find he’s like a poopy baby who will knife you if you reveal his poopiness to anyone. It’s kind of a trip but these guys flash money around and hey, a nucka gotta eat. And remember, dyed-in-the-wool Commies are like a thousand times worse. And they’re massing, waiting for a Democrat POTUS to give them carte blanche. And Newsom would.

    I mention businessmen with bad consciences actually because I think my material can be of use to them. I make no overtures to liberals but am always pleasantly surprised when one finds my material and can reform to some extent.

    He read Marcus Aurelius in college and Nietzsche through the Internet.

    I try to not offer opinions. I do some on X and that’s probably not a good thing, in the long run. The things I say that do well tend to blend some with the programming that Elon Musk’s handlers have decided X will put into the average American’s head. Always to get inflamed and indignant, never to organize, always to rely on the government to do something about something. No sheriffs allowed.

    I also will post links to songs that I like over on my public chat group on Telegram. I view this as Opinion Lite.

    The Argument means that you are displaying models for reasoning as opposed to neat end products for mass consumption. All of my favorite artists (Bach, Van Morrison, Queen, Sting, a few others) are adherents to methodologies. They are not going for “hits”. Hits get people high. But bread and butter is in songwriting. It is a love of the craft, of something well done to internal standards of excellence. This is why I don’t like noodlers on the guitar. Sure, it’s a show of virtuosity and that’s nice in brief bits, but ultimately, nothing existential is being conveyed to the listener. Existential exposition interfaces with philosophy because the strength of the story in a song lives or dies by the internal consistency of the songwriter. Musical noodlers usually don’t have consistency because of their obsession with practicing the instrument. They tend to get obsessed with substances because of their addictive nature that drove them to virtuosity. People like this are better contained in an ensemble, even as the lead man, where they learn to be reliable for others. You can hear their voices “even out” and “broaden” as they get older.

    This is why I do not put stock in youthful “flash in the pan” energy. I put stock in consistency of production and integrity of internal standards – which of course is only a proxy for the kind of discipline it takes to form an actual argument. Ultimately, I want philosophy over anything else. But I understand not everyone actually gets there – yet they still have wonderful things to offer the world.


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    This might be my last article for a week or so. We’ll see. Maybe I’ll squeeze another one in here soon. I’m going to take some personal time off, just waiting on the thing, wink wink.

  • Complaining Is A Lack Of Responsibility Taken

    “Woe is me” decries the Modern Man.

    Complainers think that complaining is a form of thinking. They’re not dissimilar from people who will add a snotty little something to a tweet of yours and then feel accomplished. The typical exchange is something like this:

    Me: America has been totally busted since 2001.

    Complainer: 2001? Try 1913, bub!

    Only they don’t say “bub”. They tend to say far nastier things.


    “I can’t do this, I can’t do that,” wails the complainer.

    One of the simplest formulas in the world is, “Person X doesn’t feel good inside, tries to infect Person Y with same said feeling.”

    Complainers typically have a gigantic backlog of negative feedback that they act out onto others. They don’t want to own the backlog, simply spew it out like bile from an upset tummy.

    Where the difference can be made is in taking responsibility for the condition of one’s own mind wherein one would resort to complaining in the face of whatever difficulty.

    It is not someone else’s job to fix you.

    It is not someone else’s job to support you (unless you’re paying for professional help).

    The world is not particularly interested in your difficulties, especially if you’re a White male.

    I don’t say these statements with a strong feeling one way or the other. This is simply an observation of how the deck is stacked. It is stacked against the consolation of everyone, particularly straight White males.


    Complainers generally have a strong Inner Critic.

    Meaning, the parent that was dominant in their life was also critical, scolding, shaming, and dominant.

    “Nobody wants to look at the devil in the mirror.”

    Complainers cannot separate from their childhood feelings of helplessness. Yes, you felt helpless as your parent tore into you and made you feel less-than.

    Complainers sort of give up rather than attempt to separate from their feelings of helplessness. They don’t want to recognize the origins of the helplessness. They want to live inside of the helplessness so they don’t ever have to grow up. Their complaints become their friends and a kind of inner community they inhabit.

    This is how you end up with Boomers who will complain about the same thing for decades while never fixing it. A lot of Millennials and so on down the line will end up like this.

    Mommy loves you, Snookums, one injection at a time.

    For some complainers, complaining was the only way they garnered sympathy, however temporary. Sometimes this is called Munchausen syndrome. And some go through Munchausen by proxy where their parent deliberately sabotaged them so that the parent could receive support and sympathy for the “problem child”.

    These are rather common experiences but the psychology medical complex attempts to seize control of the situation through their clinical labels.

    In a strange way, complainers want to drive others nuts the same way their negative parent drove them nuts. Or they want to induce in others the aggressive behavior their parents showed them. Simon The Boxer. Complainers can’t give it up because it’s all they’ve ever known.

    This reminds me of people who grow up on “state assistance” and then end up as diabetics in the hospital on Medicaid.


    I think it helps to even know you have a strong Inner Critic, usually modeled after your mother or father.

    To stay firmly centered on that fact, even if it takes months or years to solidify.

    Not everyone’s Inner Critic will give up right away. And, eventually, Inner Critics do offer benevolent insights. But that takes a while to get to and sometimes a person’s Inner Critic will take advantage of a person’s awareness of this fact in order to jump ahead in line.

    Heckin’ based??

    A spooky one to consider is how many men are just GIVING UP. Because that’s not all it amounts to. They’re asking to be bullied by the environment. For a Strong Man to come into their life and give it meaning and shape. To march in columns in uniforms again. This potential eventuality means contemplative people such as yours truly get pushed to the fringes even further and sanity goes out of the Marketplace. Society needs its moral philosophers and honest artists if it is to go to a benevolent place. The spells that overcame men en masse in the past should be left to the past. There is much work to do.

    We live in a situation where the women, and their cats and dog babies, are all marching in a row, going nutso on abortions, consumer credit, and voting in every Taliban and Epstein they can. We already live under a whacko Godhead and it looks suspiciously a lot like Christine Lagarde:

    You can get out of complaining but it means accepting the principle that rationality can resolve all personal challenges. Some men don’t want to do this. They want to persist in a kind of personal mysticism where sorrow and defeat are inevitable.

    Is rationality a force stronger than your own personal struggles or not?

    Men who don’t like the Hidden Hand of the free market almost 100% of the time cannot overcome their personal struggles. They do not accept their smallness in the face of the collective human capital and pooled intelligence of the human species.

    What have you been through? Someone has been through it before and overcome. There are human resources out there for you to tap into and attain gains from.


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  • Bullying People Into Having Babies

    To breed or not to breed, that is the question.

    Stefan Molyneux has this aside he’s been saying for close to two decades, “I try to not tell people what to do because if I do that, in a person’s mind I own the effects if it goes badly for them – and I don’t want that.”

    Then he says stuff like this:

    He’s not telling you you should tell people to have children, he’s just saying that if you haven’t been cajoling them into having kids, he won’t listen to you. And you want the world’s best philosopher to listen to you, right? I do cause I’m a dork like that!


    I have a fun time with this stuff. Yes, I’ve been telling people to have children for years. Yes, I practice what I preach. I made more than one baby. Maybe or maybe not in several different countries.

    I haven’t bribed anyone to have kids. That would be an interesting but probably ultimately self-defeating prospect.

    Begged? I haven’t begged anyone to have kids, yet. Anyone who’d need to be begged wouldn’t make that good of a parent, I’d say. But beautiful people are going the way of the dodo. They get paid by modeling agencies to not have babies. J*wish daycare and all that.

    Shaming someone into having children? Some people believe in shame as a legitimate social tool of persuasion. Some people believe in it so much so that they will get angrwith you if you do not shame them at some point. It’s a weird kind of fetish for some. “Treat me badly, Steve, or I will treat you even worse.” Yeesh, no thanks.

    Bullying people to have children? That’s getting into UPB-breaking territory. Bullying? As in…rape? That’s no good. How could we bully people into having children? We could verbally attack them for having pets but not children. I knew a couple like that in SLC. They were extremely weird, obese, and the moment my woman and I signaled we weren’t football-watching normies, they stopped answering their door when we’d pop by to visit. I guess it was to be expected.

    Apparently I have bullied people into having babies:

    That was from this Bitchute video nearly two and half years ago. Hard to believe I once was willing to appear on camera for longer than like 10 minutes at a time. Really? I used to do long-form videos? What for? Didn’t my body seize up?

    We should just attack whenever we see someone without a baby. Just go off, lunatic mode, and make a big scene. Why not? The whole world is on life support, anyway.

    I’m reminded of that scene in Independence Day where Jeff Goldblumstein’s character is complaining to his rabbi that we should just trash the planet so badly that the space aliens won’t want to take it over.

    That could be me but instead of kicking around some boxes at a military base in a drunken fashion, I could be kicking over grocery shelves and hollering at some unsuspecting, child-bearing age woman.

    After all, it would gain me the approval of Stefan Molyneux – something which is important if I want to be considered good at philosophy by the world’s best philosopher. He’d at least listen to me, so that’s good. It would be discrediting of philosophy on my part if I wasn’t concerned with his good opinion (which I am heheh).

    “Bullying for UPB” – I like how that sounds.

    I tried to go with the whole “killing people” angle (as a joke) and some of you saluted, telling me you took me seriously. Guys, I wasn’t serious about that one. I guess you couldn’t tell.

    I mess with the lines of reality a bit. Why not? I’ve got a bit of a bad boy streak in me. Remember the time I wanted to use the government to crush Communism in America but then everyone got mad at me because everyone’s kind of Communist?

    Learned my lesson on that one.

    Now I am totally zen.

    I live so peacefully.

    I only ever encourage people anymore and quite frankly, people are still finding reasons to get mad at me for running it that way. What if I just went buck-farkin’-wild again? At least I’d get some approval that way. It’s called, “We do a little fighting for UPB.”

    Should I play a role?

    Sounds fun.


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  • When It Cuts Like A Knife

    On the pain of heartbreak.

    As I’ve said before, we live in Heartbreak World.

    Government budgets keep expanding.

    The birth rate keeps plummeting.

    It’s a Sea Of Negativity out there.

    We all need a reprieve but none is to be had. Most social continuity ended in 2020.

    Those who have not resolved to any degree their childhood histories will be the most susceptible to Heartbreak going forward.

    The Man In Agony

    We all know a Man In Agony or two.

    One of the first songs I ever wrote contained the lyric, “Why did you leave me?” in it. I believe I was 15 or 16 when I wrote that one. It was in response to a real life event. And I studied the question as I always have with anything that feels personally pertinent.

    It took me a few years to come up with a solid answer to that teenaged question.

    The first cut is the deepest.

    Young children know when their mothers have lost that loving feeling – to quote The Righteous Brothers.

    Typically it is because the mother has rejoined the work force. She’d rather be at a job than with the baby. It’s sad but true. Women with their maternal qualities programmed out of them tend to find babies stress making and grating.

    You can hear the chorus of men going, “My mother didn’t work and yet here I am, in agony.”

    Mothers become disillusioned. Lately, they’ve been given over to smartphones and Instagram. In yesteryear, it was the television, magazines, and would you believe it – going out for social events. Mothers also drown in the squalid, half-baked opinions of their “support network”.

    Though it is painful and difficult, if a man doesn’t want to have his heart broken, he needs to revisit, however murky and opaque, his memories and felt sense of his mother’s abandonment of him. Did she do it for a job? Did she do it because she got garbage advice from her support network? Did she do it for a religion or a religious edict? Did she do it because the father was too much to stand up to? Did she do it in favor of another, more sterling sibling?

    These details matter.

    The pattern of heartbreak experienced from the The First Betrayal becomes the template for what happens in adulthood.

    Look into it.


    Lately I’ve been working on a lot of new music. It’s coming along swimmingly. Should have a single up sooner than later!