Essays
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The Propaganda You Tell Yourself
Four years ago I wrote an essay called First Feedback. It was a lovely piece of writing and smackdab in the middle of a time where I was highly embattled. My health was in the gutter, the J6 committee was locking up people around me, and there was a chorus of people around me influencing… Continue reading
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7 Signs Of Childhood Neglect
It is important first to establish that what is commonly understood as “neglect” is in fact parental rejection. Parents reject their children. “Neglect” is an abuser-convenient term because it does not acknowledge the agency of parents. Parents make the active choice to disengage from their children and they are damn well able to observe the… Continue reading
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The Alternative To Narcissism
Relationships require upkeep. This means that goodwill needs to be banked with some frequency or the relationship will fade away. Most everyone has found themselves in the situation where they are putting in more effort than the other person. This tendency finds its origins in childhood, where we had to manage a parent who was… Continue reading