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Working With Emotional Defenses
People misunderstand emotional defenses. They are given no literacy on emotional defenses through schooling and so when they go about their adult lives, encountering emotional defenses in others, they tend to develop a highly reactive attitude toward them. They treat an emotional defense encountered in another as that person’s “golden truth”. They suspend all disbelief… Continue reading
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The Absolute Essentials Of Conflict Resolution
Conflict happens from time to time in relationships. Conflicts are bound to happen more often when people do not share values. The focus of today’s entry is more along the lines of when people share values. This is most commonly the case when people are long time friends, husband and wife, adult siblings, or in… Continue reading
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Scolding And Disagreement
People have a tricky relationship to scolding. Most people growing up were scolded for what they did wrong, according to their parents’ values, and maybe, sometimes they were praised for what they did right. As such, people tend to engage each other with uncurious scolding as adults. Since this is the social currency, the other… Continue reading