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  • Women Who Don’t Want To Be Wives

    We all know feminism has created millions of women who are married to the State.

    How can you outcompete ~$110k a year in welfare offered up to single moms? As a man, you have to earn like never before just to tempt a woman.

    A woman isn’t automatically cured of her feminism by getting married.

    There isn’t exactly a lot of quality assurance baked into society anymore. Multiculturalism, liberalism, the child abuse pandemic, and inflation have destroyed the pillars of the community.

    The community used to keep us honest to our values.

    No community = no values transmission.

    As a man, you have to ask yourself: is this woman wife material? Can she be cured of her feminism?

    I have a book that deals with these questions: The End Of Female Evil.

    If you truly love your woman, you will want to help her be disabused of her illusions. When you love someone, you tell them the truth.

    Wives who don’t want to be wives owe their loyalty to someone besides their husband.

    Here are some of the ideas they prefer over their husband:

    -my parents loved me and my childhood was fine
    -it’s good to have a job because my gal pal has a job
    -the current financial order is the same as yesteryear and so I’m entitled to spend
    -I’m really smart and so my efforts are best spent vexing you
    -my government job I had before you is going to last forever
    -my high school gal pals are forever and high school is forever
    -there are no consequences for my shitty behavior because the courts are on my side

    The common theme is the acceptance of messaging that, embedded within it, has an anti-male bias.

    You must remember how all-pervasive liberalism is in 2026.

    Thankfully, the old order is falling. Democracy is gay and dead from AIDS. Immigrants are smelly. Bankers have no clout. The military isn’t glorious or patriotic. Mainstream media is pathetic and behind the times. Movies suck. The food is poisoned. Blue light gives you cancer. The religion of the 20th century is gone.

    But within every person there is an essential question: how much of my personality is anchored in the old order?

    For the Boomers, the answer is 99%.

    For Gen X’ers, the answer is 85%

    For Millennials, the answer is 65%

    For Zoomers, the answer is 50%.

    Think of that: your wife or prospective wife has those exact odds, based on her age cohort. Millennials are passing out of breeding age, so we’re talking Zoomers almost exclusively at this point.

    50/50 chance she’s able to recover.

    If you don’t know how to undo someone’s programming, your odds are dicey.

    If you learn from my books and paywall content (kept gated to prevent AI from stealing my hard labor) how to deprogram someone, you have the winning edge. Yet, people’s insecurities go deep. Never underestimate the world’s ability to derail the progress you feel you are making in yourself or in someone else.

    Some wives just don’t want to be wives. And they’ll make your life difficult if you have a child with them. Children are not leverage. But tell that to a woman who was raised by the State, is loyal to some delusion, and undermines your good word as a husband.

    Guard your inputs.

    Women have lower boundaries than men. They get brain warped by programming more easily than men. Men have always been the ones to strike out into the wilderness and endure social disapproval in order to complete the hunt.

    Set aside your lovey-dovey enamor for a time in order to view the woman clearly.

    The vast majority of human communication is non-philosophical programming. Programming has been designed to plummet White birthrates. A woman has embedded within her messaging that is anti-maternal. Find it, work it out.

    And if you can’t, run run run the other direction.

    Need help? Drop me a line at stevefranssen@protonmail.com

    You are being lulled into a false sense of security by billionaire sophists. Their stormtroopers are the women. The women drive the growth of the State. They have been convinced of insecurity, through media programming, and so they will flock as a group to security – welfare.

    Personality is an infectious disease. Madness is transmitted through media. The higher the production value, i.e. the greater the capital base, the more legitimacy women will grant it. They want luxury. That’s the buffer from Stone Age privation. The Middle Class has been wiped out by people who voted themselves into the treasury. The Federal Reserve rules all.

    Keep on walking.

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  • The Oddness Of Bachelors

    Everywhere you look there are more bachelors than ever before. Such a sight was rare in previous generations.

    Bachelors are on their way out of the gene pool.

    There is an oddness to them that I’d like to describe today.

    Bachelors are used to having things their way. Whatever self-serving habits they may have persist in a feedback vacuum.

    Due to multiculturalism, civic participation is lower than it ever has been in the United States.

    When you introduce disparate elements into a society and pave their way using the propaganda of mass communications and state schooling, you form a split in the native population. Some will be for the newcomers. Some will be against the newcomers.

    Suddenly you have strangers with strange customs, smells, preferences, dress, accents, and appearances showing up at formerly homogenous events. This demoralizes and alienates the native population and then the natives disengage. Ever been to a Christmas parade in the middle of nowhere and some liberals in Patagonia puffer jackets bring a fighting age male Indian along with them who’s dressed like them and just smiles at everything, trying to placate anyone who will make eye contact with him?

    I have.

    We’ve all had some variation of this experience.

    The State forces tolerance. If you are intolerant, you are destroyed. The more aggressive you are in your intolerance, the more you are destroyed.

    Since there is massively reduced social participation and since native Americans are also being run out of employment, which is an act of genocide, there are starting to be all of these bachelors everywhere. And they’re pissed off, estranged, lonely, and vilified.

    I have lots of sympathy for such people and my limited purpose here today is to describe a kind of oddness to them – not take up at length their plight. But if you have a gander at my video content, you will see I have spoken up on their behalf plenty of times. I have an entire book dedicated to their cause:

    When you are isolated, you lack feedback. Feedback is what grounds you to reality. We all develop our theories about reality but it is important to test our theories against the experience and responses of others. Otherwise, we develop hobbies and they destroy us.

    We have a whole generation of single, young men, run out of the institutions, who are logging into the Internet and having their resentments stoked and mirrored back to them. This is creating in them a sense of rage and resentment. These, of course, can be commandeered by destructive leader figures.

    I won’t stand in the way.

    It’s just to say that when you have no one, you have no negotiations. You do not have to weigh your priorities against anyone else’s. Since the government education camps are completely useless at pair bonding males and females together, you basically step out of high school graduation into a void of inattention and doom scrolling. And the young women are even more pressed than the men. The propaganda efforts aimed at them are several orders of magnitude more sophisticated. Everything is being done to give them “ick” so they’ll while away their limited fertility.

    And so bachelors persist. The computer, the smartphone is safe. Free time block? Spend it on social media. More echo chamber engaged. No negotiation. At best, shouting insults into a void. Call someone a name in a reply under an anonymous account. Vacant impotency. Lust for e-girls. Die un petit mort when the e-babe looks seductively into the camera. Hungry time. Go to the grocery distribution center or get the groceries delivered. Or get some Uber Eats. Don’t talk to anyone. Just keep grinding for some computer XP. Have your every impulse catered to.

    Without children, there’s no one tugging at your sleeve now and then to knock you out of your digital stupor. Men just let themselves go. The old fraternal networks are gone. All the Commons is a faggy corporate space. Men don’t figure on what it does to a man to just log on and while away. The soul being eroded until a man is a husk by his 40’s but hey, peak earnings have been attained and so it’s time to have a FrickFest with a younger woman. That’s the new sell. And the clever coverup for that is to depict the opposition against it as feminists who are bitter and jealous. Set aside notions of soul erosion. Soul erosion doesn’t happen! Why? Because someone rageful and resentful online said so. I don’t mind if you find a younger woman. It’s your conscience I care about. And the dopamine bump wears off and you’re still left with most of your old habits.

    I’m not saying YOU’RED COOKED if you’ve managed to get to your 30’s without a wife. I’m saying that if you were honest with yourself and stopped all the digital excitation long enough for your conscience, which has been buried, to seep through in the quiet way that it does at first – you’d find that you had a lot more to do with this arrangement than your favorite online people have led you to believe.

    I’m in the business of minting anti-victims. We all need feedback to get to where we want to be. Drop me a line if you need a cornerman:

    stevefranssen@protonmail.com

    Talk soon!