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How To Not End Up A Loser In Your 30’s
How To Not End Up A Loser In Your 30’s The charm of youth wears off and people’s personalities become beholden to the habits they kept in adulthood. By the late 20’s, a person has fundamentally made their choice whether they will live truthfully and honestly or they will be a drain on others. People… Continue reading
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“You Made Me Feel!”
A common conflict trap that people get into in adult relationships is the accusatory, “you made me feel!” game. Let’s break it down:-Person A does something Person B does not approve of-Person B has some uncomfortable feeling, immediately attributes feeling to other person, says, “You’re making me feel x, y, z!”The you-made-me game falls flat… Continue reading
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First Feedback
People have a tremendous intuitive capacity inside of them that they lose contact with as “shit happens”. Most people have it pounded out of them by their teenage years through the incorrect, harmful parenting that is commonplace. They also lose it because of television (a huge culprit), social media, and public schooling. In adulthood they… Continue reading